Gift ideas for a healing place
Bormioli Rocco Duemila Flower Vase
Dr. Andrew Weil was featured as the “alternative health guru” in a 2005 Time cover story which listed his “Ten Wellness Tips” in a very small inset within the article.
#10 was “keeping fresh flowers in the home for their beauty, fragrance, and the lift they give our spirits.”
Mother and Dad frequently received flowers from family members, the flowers sometimes arriving without a vase. This special vase marked their destination in our modest great room. Excellent quality – thick, sturdy, and beautiful.
Vacuum - Aerus
Due to a busy traffic pattern on off-white carpet, we used the vacuum every day. After Dad was hospitalized with pneumonia, maintaining an exceptionally clean environment took on an even higher priority. It was a budgetary stretch, but a good investment, to purchase what was a high-end Electrolux product at the time. Today it is sold under the name Aerus.
Bird-watching and Essential Paraphernalia
I found a beautifully-bound book in Mother’s library – The National Audubon Society Field Guide to North American Birds, Eastern Region (1994). Recalling her Audubon Club membership during her college years, I inquired about her bird-watching experience while wintering in Florida since the book is for the Eastern Region. Had the book been a gift to her?
At the ranch, we would pursue this interest in bird-watching! It definitely fit our setting next to our old woods. This photo captures Mother greeting her birds at daybreak.
For individual bird-watching items in the collection, please scroll down.

Shepherd Hook
One of our very generous caregivers brought her shepherd hook from her garage for us to use with these early birdfeeders. Soon we were gifted with a second birdfeeder by another caregiver and her family.
So grateful for these thoughtful gifts! …especially when I would see Mother singing to her birds.
Bird Food
As we observed the turnout of an array of diverse birds at the birdfeeder, we began to see a connection between the kind of bird food du jour – and the size of the turnout! We made quite a number of changes over the years to see which product brought the largest and most diverse turnout to the “table.”

Birding Hat
From the kitchen sink, we had a wonderful perspective on the birds at the feeder and we did not really need a hat. If we had needed one, Mother’s hat would surely have been a great pick. Or this one from Amazon which looks like a great multi-purpose hat. I would still be wearing it in my all-new environment south of the border.

The GPS of the brilliant cardinal - a gift for caregivers!
One of many long-lasting memories of nature surrounding us at the ranch was witnessing a most magnificent cardinal! I just happened to look out at precisely the right moment. Being the most brilliant shade of red, he emerged as only a tiny speck from the top of the green leaves of the tall trees close to the highway. He was strong, beautiful, and gracefully propelled as he swooped in, creating a huge dramatic arc. And he landed right in front of me – on our birdfeeder – heartily partaking of our offering. An indelible memory! I was awe-struck by being back close to the wonder of nature. Mother’s still-present interest in bird-watching which had prevailed since her undergraduate days had re-awakened me to the drama in nature.
During a couple of our years at the ranch – in the mid-2000’s – caregivers began to arrive talking about their new GPS. It sounded quite novel to me, but I knew I would not be needing a GPS for my road travel to and from Chicago. For caregivers, however – those who travel within a region to deliver care to an always-changing caseload – this would be an ideal gift.











